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How do you let a hurting mother know you care?


Gifts Ideas for Noncustodial Mothers
How do you let a hurting mother know you care? 

Sometimes as a noncustodial mother you feel no one understands. Let her know you care about what she is going through with a gift. 


Not sure what to get a mother who has lost custody of her children for Noncustodial Mother’s Day? We have some great ideas. 

Moms would like ways to preserve pictures of their children, their feet, and their hands. This helps them remember how little they were. When they have babies, you can place them in the same molds and see the differences. Baby handprint kits are available at your local craft store. You can even get them to set in a picture frame and add pictures of them at that age. 

A keepsake neckless is a great gift. Moms can put a picture in the locket or hold it when they think about their baby. One mom holds her keepsake neckless when she prays for her children.

A mug is a great way to remind mothers every morning that they are loved. You can get inspirational mugs with a positive saying to remind them every day they drink coffee to be inspired. 

Help moms to remember that they are a great mother and that they did nothing wrong or deserve what has happened to them. A lot of mothers have low self-esteem and struggle not being with their babies. Here are some ways to encourage them to keep going.

I love you to the moon and back pendant will also so a hurting mother how much you care about them. They can wear it when going to court and knowing someone is on their side. Even though you cannot be there physically, you will be there spiritually.

Snag wear can help her find other mothers that don't have custody of their children when she is out and about. Create your own saying on a t-shirt or get one of ours,

The dog kennels are overrun with dogs and moms need to give kisses and hugs they can't give. A therapy animal will help her with her healing process, and she will never feel alone.

Electric blankets, weights blankets, and fleece blankets are favorites for moms. Moms like to keep warm and feel soft material on their skin. You can find videos on how to make your own waited blanket so you can tailor it to her liking.

Aromatherapy oils can be placed on the skin and massaged in with a reusable heat pad. This creates a warm smooth sensation. 
Did you know that lemon oil can create joy in a person? 

Vanilla can help to keep a person calm and great for people who have post-traumatic stress disorder. 

A heated rice bag is nice for sore muscles that she may get from stress. Watch YouTube videos on how to create your own. You could even make it match the weighted blanket.

Find a perfect washtub she can put her feet into. Add in the tub Epsom bath salts, bath bombs, pumice stones, and aromatherapy oils. Throw in some lotions for after the soak. Don’t forget a towel to wipe her feet off for a do-it-yourself foot massage kit.

Gift baskets are fun to make and tailored to what the noncustodial mom likes, Fill the basket with aromatherapy oils, chocolates, gum, stuffed animals, and a card from our Zazzle store telling her how much you care. 


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