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Resources For Noncustodial Mothers

Get help with housing from HUD

The U.S. Department of Housing and Development, HUD, exists to help people in need to gain specific information about HUD assistance in your state. You can find a housing counselor to help you avoid foreclosure, learn about options for rent relief, view HUD houses for sale or locate a homeless shelter near you.



Sell your diamond at Worthy.com

Provides a low-hassle way to rid yourself of your wedding ring or other rings. Send them your jewelry via FedEx and they will appraise the ring. They will then invite you to set a reserve price. Then they will clean and photograph your ring and place it for sale.


Get help preparing your taxes through VITA

The Volunteer Income Tax Assistance (VITA) program can help. VITA provides free tax preparation assistance to people with household incomes under $58,000. Call 1-800-906-9887 for more information or click this link , enter your ZIP code, and read about where to go and what to expect.


Being alienated from your child PlotTwist

Court centered language questions to ask your children about movies that portray manipulation. A one in a kind help that teaches your children about manipulation and understanding how it is done so they can verbalize it without mom telling them. They now have a coloring book for young kids that moms can use to help fight back after visitation with dad.  


Get positive daily affirmations on your smartphone

Download Unique Daily Affirmations or  Calm simple yet effective apps for Android and Apple devices.


Woman’s Social Media Peanut

Find friends and support to help you with all your questions about woman hood from relationships, pregnancy, motherhood to menopause! This app is becoming the fastest growing mother’s support platform.

 

Can’t afford a lawyer and must represent yourself Editable

Not sure where to begin representing yourself in a custody dispute. This site will help you create a motion templet to use for every motion you write. They have case law, editable documents, and so much more. Check out their app on writing a motion right on our cell phone.


Ask others’ opinions at LoveShack.org

Interpersonal relationship advice and assistance community. You can ask questions such as, “Do I put this guy in the friend zone?” “He doesn’t want my kids around when we are together. “Should I dump him?” Gather some second and third opinions is a fun alternative to more “traditional” social media.


Kick back and watch a movie!

The Road Ahead 

As the protagonist (Liam) is about to ask for a divorce, he receives the devastating news that his wife Mia has cancer. Hoping to repair their relationship and her health, Mia suggests they take a road trip together as a healing journey.

The War of the Roses

See just how ugly (but entertaining) it can get when a divorce is far from amicable. Namely, when a couple refuses to reach a settlement agreement because neither wants to leave their over-the-top mansion. It’s a great lesson in letting go of physical things that really won’t set you up for the future you want. 

Waiting to Exhale

This movie is a must-see friendship movie about four women dealing with men who play them, betray them, and just plain don't deserve them. The scenes where Bernadine (Angela Bassett) burns her ex's precious material possessions and sells the rest for next to nothing will make you squeal with wish-I-could-do-that delight.

The First Wives Club

This film is the ultimate laugh-out-loud but also validating film for any woman who's been wronged by an unfaithful or super unappreciative husband. And, oh yes, they get revenge. It's also led by an all-star cast of kick-ass women.

Diary of a Mad Black Woman

This movie is a bit over the top at times (it's a Tyler Perry flick with his famous Madea character), but it's satisfying to see the jilted ex-wife get her happy ending. The film blends emotional drama with comedic moments, highlighting themes of resilience, forgiveness, and the transformative power of self-respect and inner strength. 

What's Love Got to Do with It

This movie is the story of Tina Turner and Ike Turner's cringe-worthy relationship (fortunately, ending in divorce and Tina's incredible solo success). Warning: it also depicts some of the horrific abuse Tina endured.

Under the Tuscan Sun

Follow Diane Lane, who plays the protagonist, as she tours Italy and indulges in a little (okay… a lot) of post-divorce romance and reinvention. This one will lift your spirits and let you explore all the possibilities that can lie ahead.

How Stella Got Her Groove Back

This romantic drama follows the story of Stella Payne, a successful 40-year-old stockbroker who is burned out and seeking change. She takes a vacation to Jamaica on the advice of her best friend, Delilah. There, Stella meets Winston, a handsome local who is 20 years younger, and they have a passionate romance. The relationship challenges Stella to confront her fears about age, societal expectations, and what she truly wants in life.

Enough Said

This romantic comedy-drama that follows the story of Eva, a divorced masseuse, who begins dating Albert, a sweet and funny man also dealing with a recent divorce. As their relationship deepens, Eva unknowingly befriends Albert's ex-wife. Torn between the positive aspects of her new relationship and the negative stories from his ex, Eva's insecurities and doubts begin to surface.

Mrs. Doubtfire

This is a dramedy starring Robin Williams. He plays a divorced dad who loses custody of his kids (with ex-wife played by Sally Field) due to his inability to adult functionally. Since he's an actor, he disguises himself as an elderly female housekeeper and is hired by his ex. His act teaches him how to be the kind of father his children need.

Kramer vs. Kramer

"Kramer vs. Kramer" is an award-winning legal drama that explores the emotional and legal complexities of divorce and child custody. The story follows Ted, a workaholic advertising executive, whose life is turned upside down when his wife, Joanna, unexpectedly leaves him and their young son. Suddenly thrust into the role of a single parent, Ted struggles to balance his demanding career with parenting. Just as they begin to settle into their new life, Joanna returns, seeking custody of Billy, leading to a bitter and emotionally charged court battle.

Hope Floats

This is a romantic film starring Sandra Bullock and Harry Connick, Jr., but there are a few scenes that really hit. If your ex fails at co-parenting, those moments will require lots of tissues.

Stepmom

This movie unfolds around a classic storyline: a husband (Ed Harris) leaves his devoted wife (Susan Sarandon) for a much younger woman (Julia Roberts). But there's a lot of depth and interweaving tragedies and triumphs in this movie.

Death Becomes Her

This movie shows just how nasty things can get when the desire for revenge and vanity takes over. The dueling ladies are played by Goldie Hawn and Meryl Streep, with their antihero ex-fiancé, miserable husband Bruce Willis caught in their crossfire.

The Other Woman

Carly, a successful lawyer, discovers that her boyfriend, Mark, is married. Devastated and seeking closure, Carly confronts Mark's wife, Kate, and the two women form an unlikely friendship. They uncover yet another mistress, Amber, and form an alliance to plot revenge against Mark.

Crazy, Stupid, Love

This movie, while mostly a comedy, also gets deep into the "should I stay or should I go" dilemma. It stars Julianne Moore and Steve Carrell as a separated couple whose daughter (Emma Stone) is dealing with her own complicated love affair (with Ryan Gosling).

Eat Pray Love

This movie lets you live vicariously through Julia Roberts's character as she chooses herself, good pizza, and travels over marriage.

Joy

This movie is about struggling to make ends meet and is based on a true story. Jennifer Lawrence plays the lead, Joy Mangano, who makes a fortune with her Home Shopping Network-promoted inventions.

It's Complicated

This movie is a comedy starring Meryl Streep and Alec Baldwin. It shows you what happens when boundaries get blurry and couples struggle to move on. "It's Complicated" is a lighthearted take on the messy and often unpredictable nature of love and relationships.

Ticket to Paradise

Divorced exes (George Clooney and Julia Roberts) reunite on a mission to stop their daughter from what they assume is a doomed marriage, as she plans to marry a man she met only a few month


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