We updated our logo and wanted to add information about what moms go through. We added tortured, concealed and erased. We feel this better explains what moms are going through with Civil Court. Let us know what you think of the new logo! 

  Friends can purchase merch to let a hurting mother know how much you care. Noncustodial Mothers can purchase merch to make other noncustodial mothers aware they are not alone and to strike up conversation while in public. If you are daring, you can wear a t shirt to court. Get Merch Here!

  DK Family Court Trauma Coach is educating parents on how the family court system uses torture techniques, mostly on Mom's, to sell custody. This is done to keep all eyes off them and keep all eyes on the parent losing custody. They have to make mom look bad so if there is an investigation into the case, it appears mom didn't deserve custody.  DK heard something that sounded like she was tortured in family court. She studied torture, mind control and more to learn that the family court system is using torture techniques on moms. Check out her website, eBooks, and articles. Nobody is talking about the family court torture. She also has some interesting merch you can purchase to help you start conversations in public and make others aware of the family court.  See how Noncustodial Mother's Day came about and how DK came up with the date. 

Dealing with the family court can really get us down.  DK created a list of music to lift your spirits and get you feeling better. Listen when you feel defeated or need a pick me up. K id songs, worship songs, oldies but goodies and more.  Make your own YouTube list and add the songs you like. This is just to get your creative juices flowing.  Feeling Defeated Tell Your Heart To Beat Again I Believe I Can Fly Beautifully Broken Voice Of Truth Hero Feeling Down Praise You In The Storm Joy - Backstreet Boys Joy Joy Joy - Michael Jackson Rise Up Don't Worry Be Happy Worship Joy Joy King and Country Joy Game On - Sing Language Joy By Tori Harper Sing For Joy Need To Breath The Happiness Happiness Is Here Happiness - Pharrell Williams Night Time We Like To Party I Gotta Feeling Let Grove Tonight Ladies Night Hip Hop Joy - Jimmy Ledrac Boom Boom Boom Pow Just Dance Uptown Funk Fun Oldies Jeremiah Wa...

Gifts Ideas for Noncustodial Mothers How do you let a hurting mother know you care?  Sometimes as a noncustodial mother you feel no one understands. Let her know you care about what she is going through with a gift.  Not sure what to get a mother who has lost custody of her children for Noncustodial Mother’s Day? We have some great ideas.  Moms would like ways to preserve pictures of their children, their feet, and their hands. This helps them remember how little they were. When they have babies, you can place them in the same molds and see the differences. Baby handprint kits are available at your local craft store. You can even get them to set in a picture frame and add pictures of them at that age.  A keepsake neckless is a great gift. Moms can put a picture in the locket or hold it when they think about their baby. One mom holds her keepsake neckless when she prays for her children. A mug is a great way to remind mothers every morning ...

Women leaving violent relationships face many challenges and risks. A survivor with children may encounter even greater barriers in protecting herself and her children from an ex-partner. These barriers are especially insidious because they take the form of “no-win” situations or “traps.” If she stays, she may be accused of “failing to protect” her children from violence and then faces more violence, yet leaving means facing the risk of stalking, harassment and more abuse. Reporting threats or violence to authorities or being reluctant to co-parent means she goes against the “friendly parent” standard used to award custody. She also risks being accused of making false allegations of abuse or being labeled as an “alienator,” causing “parental alienation syndrome” in her child. We illustrate such traps with survivors’ own words among those who experience very negative custody or visitation outcomes. Learn more