From Noncustodial Mother's Day 2025 to Noncustodial Mother's Day 2026 , we’re launching a nationwide movement to finally answer a question no one seems to be asking: How many noncustodial mothers are there in the United States? We’re collecting that data— mother by mother —to raise awareness and prepare for a powerful public demonstration in Washington, D.C.   If funding allows, this will be a symbolic funeral protest to mourn the children we’ve been unjustly separated from by the family court system. H ow to Join the Movement We are asking noncustodial mothers to contribute $5 to be: Counted in the national total Included in the statistical survey Represented by a small plastic child figure used during the main demonstration Your donation will also allow us to gather vital information for protest signs, messaging, and media outreach. A survey link will be sent to your email after donating. This data is crucial —it shows our pain in numbers, not just...

Noncustodial Mother Motivation We created this award for noncustodial mothers to download, put their names on it, and place where they can see to remind them, they are tortured, concealed, and erased and they are not bad, bitter moms! Get your free award Here!  

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By DK, Family Court Trauma Coach Creator of Noncustodial Mother’s Day and the 2025–2026 Noncustodial Mothers Be Counted! Be Heard survey with the Funeral Protest! A quiet shift is happening in family courts, and it's being led by a company named Maximus . These changes come on the heels of growing public pressure—especially from parents in Arizona—where conversations about reforming child support and custody enforcement started heating up in 2025. Since then, politicians in Arizona and other states have begun holding meetings on the matter. But what exactly is changing? And who is being left out of the conversation? What Maximus Is Planning Jeremy Toulouse, a representative of Maximus, says the company plans to modernize the child support system with a more “holistic” approach to family services. He acknowledges that the current system is often punitive toward noncustodial parents , especially fathers, citing examples like contempt proceedings and driver’s l...

  We’ve created a line of merchandise designed to support and uplift mothers affected by the family court system—and to help spark conversations with others who’ve been through it too. Each T-shirt includes a QR code on the back, so if someone behind you wants to order the exact same shirt, they can scan and purchase it easily. It’s a simple, powerful way to raise awareness in everyday settings. ⚠️ Please note: We do not recommend wearing these shirts to court. Doing so could cause issues with judges or court officers. New Designs Added Regularly We regularly update our shop with: New slogans Different shirt styles Other merchandise to spread the message Keep checking back to see what’s new! 💡 Got an idea? Do you have a slogan or design idea? We’d love to hear it! If we use your suggestion, you might even receive a free T-shirt as a thank-you. Together, we can keep making noncustodial mothers—and all affected parents— seen and heard . Get Merch Here!

  DK, the Family Court Trauma Coach , is shedding light on a disturbing reality: the emotional and psychological harm many mothers experience within the family court system. She argues that the system often uses coercive and trauma-inducing tactics to manipulate outcomes—creating intense stress, confusion, and fear that can resemble psychological torture. These methods, DK says, serve to discredit the parent losing custody, ensuring that if anyone investigates, it appears the mother was unfit from the start. A Personal Journey of Discovery After enduring her own deeply painful experience in family court, DK began to notice patterns that felt disturbingly similar to the techniques used in psychological warfare—such as isolation, gaslighting, intimidation, and emotional degradation. Determined to understand what was happening, she spent years studying trauma psychology, mind control, and institutional behavior . What she discovered changed her life—and the lives of the parents s...

We’ve Updated Our Logo – and Here’s Why As part of our ongoing mission to raise awareness, we’ve updated our logo to reflect the harsh reality many noncustodial mothers face every day. Along with "Noncustodial Mother’s Day," our new design includes three powerful words: Tortured. Concealed. Erased. These words are not chosen lightly — they speak to the lived experiences of countless mothers navigating a broken civil court system. Tortured by ongoing legal battles and emotional trauma. Concealed from their children, often with no contact or knowledge of their whereabouts. Erased from their children's lives, stories, and even memories. These are not isolated experiences — they are patterns we can no longer ignore. We believe this new logo better captures the truth of what so many mothers endure, and we hope it will spark deeper understanding, greater empathy, and meaningful change. Let us know what you think of the new logo. Your feedback matters — espec...