Trust In Yourself And Never Doubt Yourself For One Minute.

Deanna Creator Of NonCustodial Mother's Day

In 1999 I went through a divorce that cost a lot of money. I fought for custody of my children. The odds were against me and they were showing me as a bad mother and the father as a "great dad" so the Guardian Ad Litem (GAL) stated. The GAL is an attorney for children and watches out for the best interest of the children in a divorce case.

No matter what I did I was made out to be the bad parent and my ex a great father, even though I had a Personal Protection Order (PPO) against him for violence. I had to continue to remind myself that I was a great person, my children were my life and I would do anything for them. Knowing something was wrong and keeping myself out of jail, as the judge threatened to do to me, I kept quiet in court. I researched the players in my case and attended public meetings and events. 

In the end, he got custody and my children were concealed from me. That is when I started researching all the players in my case. When you go from taking care of three children to not even seeing your children you have a lot of free time on your hands.  I was thankful that I ended up representing myself after the divorce and through this ordeal. The research discovered that the GAL sold my former spouse custody of my children. I would have paid an attorney and spent thousands and still lost in the end. 

I knew I was a great mother and did not believe any of their lies. What my former spouse was doing is alienating my children from me. He put a lot of ideas into the kid's heads that would then get them to misbehave for me. The GAL kept the focus on me and turning anything that I did into something that was bad. This way if you looked over the case you would think I did not deserve custody of my children, but in reality, it was keeping people from looking into what she, the GAL was really doing. SELLING CUSTODY OF CHILDREN TO ABUSIVE FATHERS.

I created NonCustoidal Mother's Day to let other mothers know what is happening in family court and so others can let a hurting mother know how much they care.

Trust in yourself and never doubt yourself for one minute. 

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